There are many reasons why many guys who join websites that offer sex with local singles fail time and time again. You have to understand, it’s very easy to get excited. I mean, you join a website and it promises that you would be able to fuck local singles.
You may be having a tough time in your local area and might be wondering where tons of local women looking for sex are.. A lot of the women there might take you’re fucking Quasimodo or you’re fucking Frankenstein. You might have a bad reputation. Whatever the case may be, chicks don’t want to jump on your dick where you are.
So you get excited because you come across this mobile dating app or this online dating platform that says that you can fuck local singles. This is where a lot of guys fail because, automatically, they assume that the platform would do the work for them. The moment you assume that, is the moment you fail.
So, the first reason is they give too much credit to the platform and they absolve themselves of the responsibility to sell themselves. Which brings me to the second point. The second common reason why guys fail is they don’t sell themselves.
Believe it or not, when it comes to online dating, you have a product, and that product is you. You’re selling yourself. Even if it’s a simple matter of just returning an email or putting together a profile, you’re selling yourself. Drill that into your head. You’re selling yourself, so act like a fucking salesman.
Common reason number three why guys fail to fuck local singles is that they believe it’s not true. If you are in any way skeptical about what you’re doing, you are just making things harder for yourself. Now, this doesn’t mean that you’re not going to succeed. This doesn’t mean that success is completely out of the picture. What this does mean is that you’re making things all that much harder for yourself.
It’s like trying to play basketball, but at the back of your head, you’re thinking that you suck at basketball and you’re going to miss the shot. What the fuck do you think will happen when you try to make a shot? That’s right, you will try to undermine yourself at a subconscious level. It’s not a surprise when the ball bounces off the backboard. Do you see how this works?
So believe in the game. And then after that, believe in yourself. If you believe that it can work, then you are in the game. But if you, from the get-go, automatically assume that this shit is bullshit, and it’s a joke, then don’t insult yourself by playing the game. Find something else to do.